Playing Catch Up

My Mom has had a minor op to try to sort out her problems and she is still waiting on the results of a CT scan but things are generally looking ok for her health wise.

Vince's step-dad died suddenly (aged 54) so we've had the upset of that to deal with, the funeral was last week. 

Vince has been working away in Ireland, he came back last week prior to the funeral and (fingers crossed) shouldn't have to go back.

My sister and her family seem to have settled into life in York.  They are coming to visit this weekend as it's my baby sister's 40th birthday!!!

I've decided to change jobs and have taken a secondment at one of our other sites that I sometimes cover for.  It means a slight pay rise but that is offset by the fact it's slightly more travelling!  My main reason for moving is that I know I won't be bored there. 

But I guess what you really want to know is how Vince & I are getting along?   Well...... from my point of view, very, very well!  I'm still happy and have never laughed so much, the down side is I still occasionally have moments of real self doubt.  I can't understand why someone so charming, loving, good-looking is with me.  I over react to silly things due to my lack of self confidence although I try not to say or do anything to show this, it doesn't stop the doubts in my own mind growing out of all proportion.

Vince still has his own flat although he hasn't stayed there in months.  This at times can be a 'thorn' for me.  I can understand him wanting his own space, somewhere to 'fall back to' but then at other times I see it as a lack of commitment to me.  I know that he just hasn't had time over the past couple of months to sort anything out; I guess I'm just impatient!  He's out tonight on a works leaving do and has suggested that he actually stay at his own flat, maybe being there will make him miss his 'home comforts', I hope so!

So, that's me up to date, should I think of anything else I'll let you know!