Hello everyone 
can't believe another week has passed so thought I'd just give you an update as to what's going on in my life at the moment. Tonight, Vince, myself, Curt and Mad Fiona are going to Burton to the opening of Fiona's brothers 'Gay Bar' Bar Blush and in order to prevent myself from saying something I shouldn't, I've offered to drive.
You see, I didn't blog about it at the time, but the night before Vince came back from Goa and I met up with Curt and Fiona, Curt actually propositioned me as we were travelling home. Naturally I turned him down and clarified that we are only 'friends' and after a little persuasion got him to agree that this was for the best. I explained that on our 'second' date he had told me all about Julia, someone he'd had an affair with many years ago and who he'd recently bumped into, so I assumed his interests lay elsewhere. On our third meeting he suggested I contact Vince and the rest is now (recent) history. Much as I was flattered, I couldn't and wouldn't cheat on someone, I've been on the receiving end too many times and know how it feels.
Anyway, the closeness that had developed between Vince and myself meant that when he returned he knew something wasn't quite right and has guessed what happened. Vince and Curt have never met, until tonight that is! So I guess I'm also a little apprehensive incase something is said or hinted at, hence my reluctance to have a drink.
Apart from tonight, Vince is bowling Saturday and Sunday (crown green bowls), I'll probably go along on Sunday, we don't have any other plans, just intending to spend some 'quality time' together this bank holiday. Will let you know how tonight goes, keep your fingers crossed for me! Oh - nearly forgot, a year ago today I made my divorce absolute, the official document states 3rd May, but it was today that I went to the courts - can't believe a year has passed!
2008-05-02 @ 11:37