Enough now, I give in.  Had an email from ex titled 'Christmas Present' with a message 'I would like to buy you this dvd (included link) if this is ok', signed by him but no kisses.  Message sent to me at work and also to my home email.

Now although I have been thinking about purchasing this dvd, surely that isn't a good enough reason to contact him saying 'Yes Please!'

I think that this could be the 'turning point' depending on how I word my reply and that is my problem.  My heart is saying, be nice, it could mean he wants you, but my head is telling me to be strong and tell him where to stick his present!!  This could be the opportunity to make it clear to him that I no longer want to be in his life as just a somebody.  I'm sitting here at work trying to keep the tears from my eyes and I'm scared, scared of what I should do.